Will He Come Back?

Here are two versions of a hypothetical reading using the same cards. The Querent wants to know if she will meet the man of her dreams.

Celtic Cross

Using the Celtic Cross spread, there are a few problems to do with various areas of the Querent's life, principally the past and to do with relationships, but the Future position has the King of Cups, the man of her dreams. Good news! The other positions do not assist in interpretation.

Opening of the Key Spread and EDs

Using a sequential spread (Opening of the Key), the King of Cups is the only Court card in the sequence of cards dealing with the future. The King is surrounded by the Tower reversed and the Eight of Swords:

Will he come back?

1	2	3	4	5
01	8 Disks	E	N	A
02	Queen Wands	F	N	P	1	1		2
03	7 Cups	W	N	A	4	3	2		2
04	2 Swords	A	F	A		4	3	4	1	1
05	Tower reversed	F	N	A	2			3		2
06	King Cups	W	N	A	3	2	1	1
07	8 Swords	A	N	P
	Queen Wands				5
	7 Cups					5	4
	Tower							5
	2 Swords								3	3

The table above can be re-ordered by clicking on the headers.

1. Resets the order of the cards
2. The cards (the un-numbered cards after 07 are shown because they are final cards and complete the counting).
3. Element of each card
4. The elemental product of the card combined with the cards either side of it. The values are: Friendly, Enemy, or Neutral
5. The relative elemental product of the card combined with its neighbours. The values are: Active, Passive or Neutral.
6. The rest of the columns show card counting from various cards, starting at 1, and going in either direction.

Counting from either the 8 Disks or the 8 Swords takes us back to onto themselves, so they are not included in the counting. Even though the 2 Swords is sandwiched betwen the 7 Cups and the Tower reversed, it is elementally very strong, the strongest in this sequence of cards. When we count from the 2 Swords, in either direction, we automatically end up back on it, which shows the trapped nature of the reading.

Interpretation

Oh dear. It looks like this could be a man from her past (Tower), who could have been violent (Tower again), possibly capable of mental cruelty, or at least represented constriction of some form. Looked at another way, the woman is fearful of just such a person appearing in her life, despite her desperation to find a partner. Using Elemental Dignities, we can find out a few more things. Fire (Tower) and Water (King) are inimical, weakening each other. Maybe this man has very low self-esteem, which is why he lashes out. Air (8 Swords) is friendly to both Fire and Water, but since this card represents constriction we hardly have a virtuous circle developing. Since Fire and Air support each other, we could be looking at a situation where the man feels trapped and impotent in the face of problems, perhaps due to past actions and experiences. The missing element, Earth, shows that he lacks a solid reliable basis to his life. He may also be impractical or something of a dreamer. Possibly he finds it difficult to leave the past.

Scanning across from these cards, we see the Queen of Wands only four cards away from the King surrounded by the 8 Disks and 7 Cups. Hmm. These people have some kind of relationship, being four from each other using the Counting technique. The 7 cups obviously represents Debauch, perhaps a drink/drug problem? The woman is hard working (8 Disks) and ambitious (Wands - Fire). Looking at the Elements, Fire and Water clash, so the 7 cups has greater debilitation than normal. Earth supports both Fire and Water, so she is practical, able to cope, and needs a structured environment. Air is missing, so either the woman is not intellectually strong, but she may be looking for someone with intelligence to make up the lack. So far I have not painted a pretty picture, but flawed characters are usually far more interesting - actors love to play the Bad Guy. To balance things up, here comes a more positive spin on things. Comparing the two people, it is obvious that the Fire/Water combination clashes, but they would have a mutual need fulfilled since they can supply the missing element for each other. The woman could learn to develop her nurturing and emotional makeup giving support to the man, while he could develop his self confidence in the face of her fiery nature.

Thus far we have not established who these people are, but it quite possible that the Querent recognizes either herself or she knows people who fit the bill. Looking four cards from the King in the opposite direction is the 2 Swords - Reconciliation, and we have found the Air necessary to bring balance to the woman. This woman does want to get back with this man, which is quite possibly reciprocated, and if she does not represent the Queen of Wands, it is quite possible that we are in the realms of a love triangle. The nature of the 2 Swords is somewhat ambiguous at the best of times, so the King Cups and Queen Wands are not as honest as maybe they should be.

The actual advice/prognostication for a situation like this obviously depends on the circumstances of the reading...

For whatever reason, this woman is still keen for some kind of relationship, and she wants to know when it will happen. Lets assume this reading took place in early September . Personally, I find most readings cover a six month period, but we can narrow down the window of opportunity to probably the last week of September (2 Swords represents the first decan of Libra, 21st Sept to 30th Sept approximately). Funnily enough, the other Minor cards support the previous week for things to start in perhaps a work context (8 Disks) or in November (7 Cups) for a full blown affair.